Kelsey Laurier doesn’t really get hate comments. She’s built up a following of some 400,000 people since she started making lifestyle TikToks in 2021—more than 90 percent of her audience is women, and Laurier describes her comment section as a “peaceful” place. Still, every so often she’ll get some “angry men” who turn up and call her “washed up, miserable, and old.” And sometimes—when she reveals her age in a video—she’ll get backhanded compliments from women: “They’re like, Oh! I can’t believe it! You look so young!”